How did I become the very thing I once hated the most?
How did I become the very thing I once hated the most? How did I become the person I had promised myself I would never be? The person I was so sure I would have done differently made better choices, known better, done better. And somewhere along the way, I became exactly what I thought I would never understand. Where did it all go wrong? Maybe that is one of life’s strange ways of making us humble. It doesn’t always teach gently. Sometimes, it breaks you into pieces scatters them so far apart that you have no choice but to sit with the fragments and slowly learn how to put yourself back together. But somehow, every time life has puzzled me, I have discovered a different picture in the pieces. A new version of me. A new landscape. A life I could not have imagined before everything fell apart. And strangely enough, when I look back, the things I once thought had ruined me often turned out to be the things that changed me for the better. I know I have l...